In our quest for meaning, we all share a common thread. Driven by intuition and curiosity, we seek purpose, that elusive state known as 'Ikigai,' where happiness and the flow of life converge.
"Ikigai" is a profound Japanese concept, translating to 'A reason for being.'
Viktor Frankl, in his seminal work 'Man's Search for Meaning,' eloquently stated, "Those who have a why to live can bear with almost any how." In essence, having a reason to live empowers us to endure the most challenging circumstances.
The meaning of life is not something we create; rather, it's something we unearth along our journey. It is a realization that may lead us to understand why our parents wake up every day, toil tirelessly, all in the pursuit of providing a better life for us – perhaps, their very own Ikigai.
In my childhood, my mother's work often took her away, leaving my grandma as my caretaker. Her daily routine remained consistent, yet her contentment only grew. Evenings meant strolls through the neighborhood, visits with friends, and returning home with tidbits, knowing I awaited them eagerly. After Maghrib prayer, my grandparents would sit at the kitchen table, savoring coffee and crackers, later moving to the swing, chewing betel nuts while awaiting the next prayer call. After Isha prayer, it was time to unwind, reclining on the couch, and enjoying television. Often, my grandpa would massage grandma’s-tired feet, soothing the aches from her daily errands. This has been their life for as long as I can recall.
Their unwavering contentment may stem from having found the purpose of their lives, having fulfilled much of it. Witnessing their eight children lead independent lives after raising them through trying times would bring satisfaction to anyone. Now, they wake up each day, tending to their routines, relishing small joys, spending time with their grandchildren, and fulfilling their religious obligations.
Discovering your Ikigai may be straightforward for some, while others may navigate rough seas. It might resemble a scavenger hunt, where some tasks bring joy, while others leave you bewildered and frustrated, searching for the next clue. But once found, it becomes the reason you wake up each morning, the driving force of your day. You become more resilient, focused, and find joy in most of what you do. Beyond the factors we can't control, like genetics and health, one determinant of our longevity within our control is having a sense of purpose.
Finding your Ikigai often entails experimentation and self-exploration, engaging in activities and reflecting upon them thoughtfully. Your Ikigai could be to serve, provide, heal, connect, build, nourish, or simply delight. It's about recognizing your strengths and embracing your passions. Along this journey, you'll realize that not everyone discovers the same 'Ikigai.' We must make the most of the purpose we find for ourselves, for it is the key to a fulfilling life.
Inspired by the book; Ikigai: The Japanese Secret to A Long and Happy Life
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